Sunday, May 22, 2011

Budget Living: Couponing

Prior to having kids, I was not very budget conscientious.
I paid full price for things, I bought what I wanted, when I wanted it, and I never clipped coupons.
But now that we are a family of five, living on one income, 
we've really had to rethink how we spend our money.
I had no idea how expensive kids can be, especially when you have three at the same time!
We go through diapers galore and we have to buy 3 of everything...
 carseats, beds, bikes, shoes, coats, etc. 
It really adds up!

So anyways, to help cut our grocery costs, I started couponing about 4 months ago.
I was skeptical at first. 
It seemed like you could almost always buy the generic brand of stuff for cheaper than the brand-name items, even with coupons. 
I was also under the impression that most of the coupons were for items that we would never use, so why bother clipping them?
Isn't it just cheaper to shop at Costco anyways?

But I was wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
Before I started couponing, I shopped at the same grocery store once a week.
My typical grocery bill was between $120-$150 each week.
We would also do a Costco run about once a month and drop about $200.

By no means am I an extreme couponer or even an expert for that matter, 
but I have learned a lot and gotten some great deals.
Now I am proud to say that I spend about $75 a week and we have only been going to Costco once every 2 months and spending about $150.
So that means I've cut our grocery bill by about half!!!

How, you ask??
I started by following some couponing blogs that are specific to my area {Pacific Northwest}.
I would suggest doing a Google search for coupon blogs in your area.
My favorites are Coupon Connections NW, Fabulessly Frugal, Frugal Living NW, and The Krazy Coupon Lady {even though she's not local, she's just awesome!}
These amazing ladies share great tips for beginning couponers and are awesome at telling you when and where to score great deals and what specific coupons to use.

Secondly, I subscribed to our local Sunday paper {The Everett Herald}. 
This is where the majority of my coupons come from.
Most expert couponers say that you should subscribe to multiple copies of your Sunday paper so that you get multiple copies of the coupons. 
I've heard that the amount of papers that you subscribe to should correlate to the number of people in your household {for me that would mean 5 Sunday papers}. 
But I haven't gotten that crazy yet.
If there's a great coupon and I want multiple copies of it, I usually just beg my friends and family to give me theirs :)

At first I was really picky about what coupons I would cut out.  
I wanted to stick to the same brands we were used to using and I would only clip out coupons for things that I bought on a regular basis.
I noticed some savings, but nothing dramatic.
Then I got some good advice from Amber from Coupons Connections NW.
If it is a coupon for a product that your family would use if it was FREE
then cut it out and save it.
So now I cut out almost every coupon I see and I'm no longer picky about brands.

Notice I said to "save it"?
The big idea is to hoard save your coupons until a product goes on sale/clearance and then use your coupon to get the product dirt cheap or even free.
So each week when the grocery store circulars come out, 
you match up your coupons to the sale items.
Yes, it takes a lot of planning and organizing each week, but I think it's totally worth it :)

So where do you keep all of these coupons!?
When you cut out this many coupons, it's hard to keep them organized so that you can find them easily when you need them.
Since I am a newbie and don't have a ton of coupons stock piled, I have been using a small coupon organizer {from Target} that fits in my purse.
My coupons are sorted alphabetically by manufacturer so that I can find them easily.

However, I am quickly outgrowing my cute little organizer.
It has gotten so full that it can no longer snap shut and it's starting to rip.
So pretty soon, I think I am going to upgrade to this method...
You can read more about it HERE.

I also have clear plastic zippered pouches labeled with store names to keep all of my store-specific coupons in.
When I have all of my coupons organized and matched up to the weekly sales, I stuff them in these pouches with my list and head to the store!

I've also seen people use binders with baseball card holder pages to organize coupons,
but those plastic pages are too expensive for my taste!

To keep clutter off of my kitchen counters, I bought this {at Staples}...
and stuck it to the side of my fridge to house all of the weekly store circulars and
other random coupon related things.

Most experienced couponers will tell you that they go to multiple stores each week to score the best deals.
With three toddlers in the midst of their terrible twos, I just don't have the time {or patience} to do that.
So I scour the weekly circulars to figure out which grocery store is having the best deals on the things we need and I shop at that ONE store for the week.
Typically I plan our menu for the coming week based on the sales or what we have on hand at home and then I do all of my grocery shopping on Sunday night after the kids go to bed.

When you find a killer deal on a product, it's best to stock up
{which is why you want multiple copies of your coupons!}.
This is how you save money in the long run.
The theory is that if you stock up at rock bottom prices, then you won't have to buy items at full price when you run out.

For example, with coupons and the weekly sale, I bought EIGHT kids toothbrushes at Safeway this week and only paid $0.12 TOTAL.
Now I have enough toothbrushes for the kids to last until another great deal comes along!!

So I'm working on building up our stockpile and someday I hope it will look like this...
{Source: Couponing 101}
Here's a great post on building up a stockpile.

So is couponing worth it? ABSOLUTELY.
It's given me a little extra money to buy the things that we just didn't have room in the budget for...
like home decor stuff :)
But it does take time and effort and there is a learning curve.
Believe me, I've definitely made a lot of mistakes, but I guess that's how you learn!

Do you coupon?

Friday, May 20, 2011

Inspiring Finds of the Week - 1

I spend a lot of my free time {while the kids are napping} clicking through blogland, looking at all of the wonderful, creative ideas out there. 

I share a lot of my favorite ideas on my Facebook page, 
but also wanted to start sharing/storing them on my blog for future inspiration.

So welcome to the first installment of the Inspiring Finds of the Week...

 shares how to make your own vintage-inspired locker baskets - so cute!

See how to use those wine corks you've been saving to make a bath mat at Curbly.

Great idea for a Father's day gift at Tres French Hens.

How cool is this PB inspired ladder lantern hanger from Unskinny Boppy!?

Ana White shows how to made a soda crate caddy using reclaimed wood from pallets.

A super cute bird feeder made out of {mostly} recycled items by Centsational Girl.

made her own white coral using spray paint and cheap aquarium coral - 
GENIUS!!!

Love the look of reclaimed wood, but can't find any? 
The Design Confidential shows you how to make new wood look old using tea!

Now go forth and BE INSPIRED!!!

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

If you have any inspiring projects or saw a project in blogland that made you drool,
email it to me at 
meadowlakecottage@yahoo.com
and it may just end up in next week's edition of the 
Inspiring Finds of the Week!

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Remodelaholic Feature

I am so excited to be guest posting over at Remodelaholic today!!


This was my first guest post ever and I was really honored to be invited by Cassity to share our Master Bedroom makeover.

Click on over to Remodelaholic to check out my post and be inspired by the many other amazing  projects featured on the site!


Monday, May 9, 2011

The May AFTER Party Wrap Up

Some AMAZING transformations were linked up this month and 
I must say that I was very impressed!

Thank you to everyone who joined the party and linked up!  
Here are some projects that had me at hello.

Nailhead Bulletin Board Makeover from Libbie Grove Design

 A totally drool-worthy kitchen makeover from Finding Home

Here's another view of the finished kitchen because it is SO gorgeous!


A broken old headboard transformed into a lovely bench from Scissors and Spatulas

A dreamy bedroom makeover from Just Drink a Coke
Isn't that reclaimed wood headboard beautiful!?
Love the name of Miranda's blog too :)

Red Hen Home shared how she turned a canvas covered in sheep 
into a lovely yellow piece of art.

Using wood found in a dumpster, Imperfectly Polished 
added some rustic charm to a plain old bathroom mirror.

Aren't those some amazing Before and Afters!?
If you want to be inspired by more Before and After projects, check out...

I can't wait to see some more inspiring projects next month...
The next After Party will be held June 2nd (the first Thursday of every month).
Hope to see you there!

Thursday, May 5, 2011

The AFTER Party and An Amazing Kitchen Redo

I've got to be honest.
I've got nothing.
Other than painting my family room & kitchen, I haven't completed any amazing  
Before and After transformations this month.
So instead, I thought I'd show one one my favorite kitchen transformations that I constantly drool over.

Emily, a fellow Northwest girl, of Jones Design Company 
turned her boring builder grade kitchen into a spectacular space that is anything but boring.


Now don't tell me you aren't drooling :)
Isn't it gorgeous!?

Emily and her husband ripped out the tile and the upper cabinets, painted the lower cabinets, rebuilt the island, put up beadboard, installed open shelving, added a built-in bench, extended the counter space to include a beverage fridge below, painted the walls, and had graite counters installed.

Sounds like a lot of work...
but well worth it in my opinion!

Here's some more views of the kitchen...




And one more look at the Before and After...


Be sure to check out Emily at Jones Design Company to see her collection of inspiring projects...
she is one talented gal!

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ 
Now go on, link up your Before & After projects because we all love a good transformation
and frankly, I'm in need of some inspiration!

You can link up any Before & After project {past or present} 
whether it be a furniture makeover, trash to treasure, or a complete overhaul of one of your rooms.

And it'd be great if you linked back to the party in your post so that others can join in the fun too.
Using a text link or the button below works for me!

3 Meadow Lake Cottage

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

A Sea of Tan - Painting the Family Room AGAIN

One of the first things we did when we moved into this house about a year ago was paint the walls in the family room/breakfast nook/kitchen. 
I really, really wanted to paint it light blue and tried many different swatches on the walls, but try as I might, it just didn't work. 

In these three connected rooms, we have wood molding, wood casings around the windows, and wood kitchen cabinets. Cool-toned light blue just doesn't mesh well with these warm finishes.


So I switched gears and painted everything a warm tan color. 

I liked it okay.

But then we bought new furniture. Tan furniture.
The last straw was when Jacob's new recliner arrived and I realized that
the room had become a bland sea of tan.


So I set out to repaint it all.
My dear husband was not thrilled about this.
"We JUST painted it and I like it!" he complained.
 So I assured him that I would take care of it all and he wouldn't have to lift a finger :)

I knew I had to stick with a color that was warm, 
while still being light and neutral-ish.
So I set out to Home Depot to browse the Martha Stewart line of paint.
I ended up picking out three warm shades of gray (Cityscape. Tobacco Leaf, and Fossil) 
and brought home some testers to spatter on my walls.


After smearing the paint in random places all over the rooms and living with it for a few days, I decided that Cityscape was too gray, Fossil was too light, and Tobacco Leaf was just right.
The pictures don't do it justice, but it's a warm grayish tan that even looks green in some light. It's perfect.


Jacob even ended up helping me paint it all :)
I think he felt sorry for me after watching me cut in all of the edges by myself for days on end, 
so he busted out the roller and we knocked it out in an evening.

It doesn't look a whole lot different, but I love that it's not the exact same color as the furniture 
and it doesn't look like the couch is melting into the wall anymore.


Now I've got to get some art or something to hang on that wall above the couch!
I'm thinking a gallery wall with my favorite photos would look pretty darn awesome.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

Don't forget The After Party is tomorrow (the first Thursday of every month)!
Hoping to see some great Before & After projects!!


Monday, May 2, 2011

FEAR

I am a perfectionist. I'll admit it.
But if you know me or follow my blog, you probably already gathered this.


I don't know if it's a innate trait or something that is a product of life experiences. But I do know that being perfect is something that I've struggled with for many, many years. I say struggled with because it's a battle that can never be won. There is no such thing as perfect.

What I just recently realized, however, is that I have a crippling fear of failure. 

I was listening to a talk on "Anxiety and Fear" at a recent M.O.P.S. (Mother's of Preschoolers) meeting and the speaker challenged us to think about what we are really afraid of. Immediately I thought of snakes, which is my number one fear, but I quickly realized that she wanted us to look deeper within ourselves.

I reflected back on my 32 years of life and then it hit me like a ton of bricks.

There were several life experiences that stuck out...

As a high school freshman I tried out and made the school basketball team. I was a pretty decent player with some good potential, but when it came to game time I didn't score one single point all season long. Whenever anyone passed me the ball, I froze. I couldn't shoot it. I was terrified of missing. So the coach gave me less and less playing time and I convinced myself that I was no good. I gave up after that season and never tried out again. 
Fear of Failure.

After completing my Associate's degree, I transferred to a 4-year university to earn my Bachelor's degree. My decision to go to Washington State University was based on their amazing Interior Design Program. I knew it was the perfect choice for me. But after one semester in the program, I quit and changed my major. I told everyone that it just wasn't for me, but really I had convinced myself that I wasn't as talented as the other girls in my class and that I'd never make it in such a competitive field. 
Fear of Failure.

I ended up getting my degree in Advertising and after completing my final internship at an Advertising/PR firm and a month of job hunting, I gave up. I just didn't have what it took to be a Creative Director and I'd never make it in that competitive field, or so that's what I told myself. Again, Fear of Failure.

Even when it comes to decorating my own house, I have rooms left undecorated and barren. Can you guess why? Yep that right. If it can't be perfect, why do it at all?
I KNOW. That's crazy thinking.

I don't know why it has taken me so long to realize that I have this fear of failure. Looking back at the choices I've made in life, it is so painfully obvious. There are so many things I've missed out on because of this fear. I now realize that in trying to avoid failure, I was actually failing by quitting. Don't get me wrong, I am very happy with how things have turned out and I love my life, but who knows what amazing things I could have done if I hadn't been so afraid...

I guess the first step towards change is admitting that you have a problem.
So here I am, saying, 
"I AM AFRAID OF FAILURE."


I started this here blog about a year ago because I love writing and I still have a deep passion for interior design. I had high hopes of turning my love of these two things into my career.  
But can you guess what? 
Once again I've gotten sucked into that vortex of fear. 

I don't have what it takes.

There are SO many amazing bloggers out there and I'll never be able to measure up.

It's a crazy idea that will never pan out. 

And so I've been putting off following my dream 
because I don't want to fail.

Last week I was visiting my Grandpa and I glanced at my dearly departed Grandma's perpetual calendar that hadn't been changed in months.

The quote on the page really struck me...


And it was then that I realized...

What have I got to lose?

So what if I fail?

How great would it feel if I succeeded?


So enough with the self-deprecating talk. 
Enough with the comparing myself to others.
Enough is enough.
I'm stamping out my fear.
IT'S GO TIME.


What are YOU afraid of???